For those who are still not familiar with dating and hookup sites, and how they work, if you are searching for a casual fuck buddy, making an account on a good hookup site is the best option. But, keep in mind that there are many sites like that out there, and you should find a legit website and the one that best suits you.
The best thing about such sites is that, unlike in real life, you get to learn the interests of the girls or guys before you even talk to them. Every dating and hookup site will offer multiple options for you to list the partners of your choice, from the color of their hair or the language they speak, to what they love to do in bed.
Once you have created your account, make sure to fully customize your profile, do not leave anything empty. Try to make yourself seem approachable and interesting, but this does not mean you should lie; though white lies never hurt anyone. After you are done creating your account, you should start browsing the partners you can chat with.
This is not the time to shy away from chatting, because everything is done online, so what is there to be shy about. If you are a man, then you should know that women tend to be quite repulsed by sexual chatting from the start, even if they are on these sites to look for a sexual partner. Having dirty talk when you have already had a proper conversation with a girl is more appropriate.
Start the conversation properly, and do not go straight to the point. Also, don’t rush the dating part immediately, because that can scare away your partners quite easily. Make sure that everything has its flow, and once the time comes, the two of you will naturally ask each other on a “date”.
Even if you are looking for just sex, there still needs to be a date prior to that, because you never know who will show up on the date. But, this does not have to be anything face, rather, it should be done in a simple everyday place, like a burger or pizza place. When you meet your partner, you should know how to keep the conversation rolling, and while giving white lies on your profile is okay, do not lie in your pictures!